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Definition of Workplace Bullying

Bullying at work is the repeated, health or career endangering mistreatment of one employee, by one or more employees.  The mistreatment is a form of psychological violence and is often a mix of verbal and strategic insults preventing the target from performing work well. 

           
     
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The problems of Workplace Bullying

  • Litigation is not effective
    • Few laws regarding it
    • Difficulty in building the case
    • Some bullies have the attitudes of “so sue me” due to the difficulties in building a case
    • Employers can outspend and outlast lone plaintiffs
    • Financial jeopardy for the target due to the high legal costs
    • The payoff due to bulling wins are relatively low and often do not justify the costs of litigation
  • Poor support for the targets
  • It is up to the person being bullied to address it on their own
  • Many companies look for bulling amongst the workers, but most bullying actually comes from management

The cost of bullying

82% of targets feel they have to leave their jobs   *The Bully at Work, Gary and Ruth Namie
When employees voluntarily leave their job, 50% of them have done so due to issues with their supervisor

Steps to solve bullying:

  1. Understand the bully
    • Chronic bullies – people who identify that bullying is a part of their nature, and do not perceive a need to change their actions
    • Opportunist bullies – competitive people who are interested in making career gains even though it may involve stepping on other people
    • Accidental bullies – bullying caused by social ineptness and lack of awareness. 
    • Substance abusing bullies – people whose social interactions are impaired by their dependence on artificial stimulants
  1. Identify the type of bullying
    • Unrealistic job demands
    • Unreasonable criticism
    • Creating an inconsistent or unfair work environment
    • Not giving credit where it is due
    • Insults, putdowns, yelling, screaming, and other abusive behavior
  1. Document the instances of bullying in detail
    • Document specifics, time and date
    • Identify allies
    • Determine code violations
  1. Determine a plan to resolve the bullying
    • Request a meeting time where you can confront the bully in a professional setting
    • Seek assistance from senior management.
    • Seek third party mediation
    • Seek legal advice
    • Get medical attention
    • Establish and protect boundaries
    • Do not blame yourself
    • Solicit witness statements
    • Follow internal complaint processes
  1. Communicate the problems with the bully or two levels of management higher than the bully
  • Taking the bully on directly at work may have undesired or unpredictable consequences for the target
  • In many cases, the bully may be seen by management as “getting the job done”
  • complaining about the bullying may draw repercussions against the target rather than the bully.

When a target reports bullying in the workplace:


11% of targets are transferred

38% left voluntarily

44% were terminated

In only 7% of those cases, was the bully censored, transferred or terminated.  

*WBTI Research (2003)

The Anonymous Option

When communicating with either the bully about their actions, or with management, it may be suggested to remain anonymous so that you have a greater sense of the outcome without needing to endanger your position. 

    • Communicate anonymously to the bully at AnonymousEmployee.com
    • Communicate anonymously with the bully’s boss at AnonymousEmployee.com to determine how much support they may be willing to offer
    • Suggest better employment practices
    • Determine cost to company of downtime/turnover

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